Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Correcting bad attitudes of a submissive

When a submissive exhibits an attitude that is disrespectful and irreverent, the Owner should immediately address the attitude and discipline the submissive for her lack of self control. There maybe times when a scolding will suffice. But since an attitude can quickly open the door to further bad actions on the submissive's part, she should be disciplined. It is the responsibility of the Owner to correct and shape the attitude of his submissive. Once the submissive has been trained and has learned what bad attitudes are, it is the submissive's responsibility to not allow disrespectful and irreverent attitudes towards her Owner.

Discipline spankings for my submissive come in sets of three. When she exhibits a disrespectful or irreverent attitude she will receive three sets of spankings which are not enjoyable at all. This is Owner correcting her attitude. Once the spankings have been given submissive will stand in the corner. And during this time submissive corrects her attitude by going over in her mind exactly where she messed up. When I have decided that my submissive has had plenty of time to reflect and correct her attitude, I will call her to me, talk with her, show her that I still love her, explain how her attitude was unacceptable, and give her the time she needs in my embrace.

One thing that must be done when disciplining for bad attitudes or in fact anytime a submissive has been disciplined is to discipline and forget about it. An Owner should never hold an infraction over a submissive's head after it has been addressed and dealt with, especially if the submissive has received disciplinary spankings.



-OwnerDoms

2 comments:

  1. Do you suggest any exercises that will aid in correcting a submissive with a bad attitude?

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  2. My submissive gets an attitude if I attempt to discuss a behavior and she does not think she has done anything wrong. Instead of listening, she immediately gets defensive. If I push, her attitude gets worse. Other than this one issue, she is the perfect submissive...

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