Ownership of a submissive

Alright I'm back work has been crazy and I have been traveling to places that I wish I could talk about. One of the things I hated was that I couldn't train my sub. Finally, I was able to start training her again and she was primed to learn new lessons.

Here is my rule about ownership that my sub has learned and can recite correctly when instructed to. The reader should keep in mind that this rules are specific to full time, lifestyle, Dom/sub roles.

Ownership:    Little girl  will be forever owned and the property of her Owner. She makes no claims to her life, her body, her mind, or her heart. They belong only to her Owner. Owner will love, comfort, protect, provide security, nourishment, dedication, and all things that Little girl needs or wants. Little girl will at all times keep her Owner informed of her location and activities. As a symbol of her Owner's property and a sign of Little girl's life, she is to always wear the collar of her Owner's. Her Owner is always with her no matter how far away or how close he is, Little girl is always in her Owner's heart and on his mind.

Let me clarify a couple of items here. Dedication, this doesn't mean Owner will never have another submissive. No. An Owner/Dominate may and should have as many submissives as he wishes. But the dedication comes into play where the Owner should dedicate time into training and caring for his subs. There is no benefit to owning a sub and not molding her and training her to be the best sub she is capable of being.

Now some may find it micromanaging of the sub to require her to inform her Owner of location and activities. This part of the rule does not keep my submissive from going out and doing things that she would like. My sub may go and do as she wishes as long as she has asked permission and informed her Owner of what she will be doing. This actually builds trust in and helps to develop the dependence of the sub on her Owner.

Ownership of a submissive is not as easy as one may think. The Owner takes on the responsibility of the life of the submissive. An Owner thinks for, provides for, and molds the submissive to be better. When complete ownership is taken, the submissive's life actually becomes easier. she is to do only as commanded and follow the rules/instructions set by the Owner.

Oh but the benefits of a well trained submissive makes all the hard work and time spent so worth it. The pleasure an Owner gets from simplely issuing a command and watching his submissive immediately, and in all humbleness, obey the command and honor her Owner in everything she does. When the sub comes to understand and know that she is the property of her Owner and everything she does is for him, she actually finds complete freedom in her life.


-OwnerDoms

Checking under the hood

Alright, I figured this might be a good post and a good waste of the internet's hard drive. The topic for this post is checking under the hood of your submissive's mind. So I will be relating my submissive to my car. Most of us have a car, we drive it practically everyday. Short trips, long trips and oh shit I hope I have enough gas trips. But the point is, you need to check on your car to see if there is wear and tear, then figure out how to get it fixed.

We park the car in the garage and set time aside to do nothing but give the car a thorough review. With the hood open, we tighten up the hoses, check the tension of the belts, the fluids, pressures, and so on. The car shows no real signs of any issues and we are done. Shut the hood and off to our next destination.

As an Owner, you have to take the time to clear off the bed, lay your submissive down, and spend time under the hood of her mind. (Later, you can spend time under a different hood of hers!) she needs to be checked on, her Owner needs to make sure there are no emotional leaks, or that the tension of her Owner's belt hasn't been to tight. With that same attention to detail, actually more, that was spent on the car, the Owner needs to carefully inspect his submissive. Yes, this process is quite vanilla but it increases the lifetime and performance of your submissive. Even through she willing allows her Owner to use her in the roughest ways he can and drive her to the edge, sometimes over. There is one thing about her that differs from an Owner's other possessions. she is flesh and blood.

Now I'm not saying you need to do this ever other day. Oh no, in fact this will have a negative effect on your submissive. But you have to make sure that the training you are giving her is being absorbed correctly and that you haven't inadvertently created some issues from the stress of training. Then once you are certain that everything is well under the hood of her mind find the hood between her legs and make her mind go wild.

Do you mind if I steer off topic for a second? good. Sometimes the best control of a submissive is to leave her untied, lay her on her back on the bed, and make out with the lips not on her face. Wrap you arms around her thighs to hold her ass down on the bed and make her feel out of control by simple giving her such an erotic pleasure with your mouth. Just remember don't rush it, you have time, let the sexual pleasure be hers. Find that spot, the lick, that movement of your tongue which causes her toes to curl and fingers to dig into the bed. Make this place be the only place where a safe word, has no meaning to you. Finish her off and leave her laying there untied and complete in your control.



-OwnerDoms

Kneel at my first post!

Well now you've done it blogland! You sucked me into writing a blog.
I was trying to recall if I've ever done something like this. I'm pretty certain I haven't.

So as I start this, be like me, don't expect a post everyday or even a week. But chances are I will post more often than I intend to right now.

The really main purpose I have for even doing this is to chronicle the taming of my submissive.
She has several names that I call her so beware of them because many times what I call is completely based on the situation or mood. She is called: submissive, missy, little girl, treasure.

For me, well many people call me an asshole then they get to know me better. And after getting to know me, you'll probably still call me asshole but a really funny one! But just for the record, ownerdoms = Owner Dominates!

Enough for now.

-OwnerDoms