A loose leash is an open door to bad habits

At some point in everyone's lives we fall into the trap of complacency. Where we have put in a great deal of labor into an object and so have molded such a wonderful master piece in our eyes. Myself as a Owner/Dom, I have put lots of time, energy, patience, and love into teaching and molding my submissive wife. I had her to a point that I was so proud of her. In everything she did, she knew exactly how to do it. Although it seems as the new school year started and daily life picked back up, I had slacked off not in the area of teaching but in discipline. Over the past few of weeks I allowed my sub to have a little more loose leash than I wanted. I did this with the intent that it would allow my sub to better help the kids. This was my trap.

One of our kids recently had a birthday. Now up to this point, since I started training my sub at the end of last year, I have made every decision and instructed her in exactly as I want things to be done. This is the Way of an Owner and I was, I am, very good at it. So when it came time to plan for the birthday, I gave my sub a loose leash to let her handle it. The party went off without a hitch and was great. But! That loose leash allowed little kitty to develop some bad habits. First, she was stressing and stressing a lot. Then she was not giving her Owner the time he wanted much less the time I needed. The worse thing was little kitty developed a bit of an attitude.

When I finally said enough and started to tighten up the leash, she resisted a little. But soon realized, that when she is on her own she can't handle it. That all the safety, comfort, and security of her Owner's complete control was not there. This caused my pet to relax against the leash, to turn and come running right back to her Owner's feet. I removed the pressure that only an Owner/Dom can put a submissive under to see if she was back correctly. Yet, I did not administer much discipline even though she deserved it.

After giving her a couple days to get her head back into the place it should be, my pet has not quite gotten there. Today she will be discipline and discipline a lot. Owner will now pull his leash in straight down to his feet. He will put more of Owner's pressure than she can handle to break his submissive then remold her even stronger than before. It is time that discipline, in its many ways, brings softness, submissiveness, humbleness, obedience and completion back to my sub.

-OwnerDoms

Ownership of a submissive

Alright I'm back work has been crazy and I have been traveling to places that I wish I could talk about. One of the things I hated was that I couldn't train my sub. Finally, I was able to start training her again and she was primed to learn new lessons.

Here is my rule about ownership that my sub has learned and can recite correctly when instructed to. The reader should keep in mind that this rules are specific to full time, lifestyle, Dom/sub roles.

Ownership:    Little girl  will be forever owned and the property of her Owner. She makes no claims to her life, her body, her mind, or her heart. They belong only to her Owner. Owner will love, comfort, protect, provide security, nourishment, dedication, and all things that Little girl needs or wants. Little girl will at all times keep her Owner informed of her location and activities. As a symbol of her Owner's property and a sign of Little girl's life, she is to always wear the collar of her Owner's. Her Owner is always with her no matter how far away or how close he is, Little girl is always in her Owner's heart and on his mind.

Let me clarify a couple of items here. Dedication, this doesn't mean Owner will never have another submissive. No. An Owner/Dominate may and should have as many submissives as he wishes. But the dedication comes into play where the Owner should dedicate time into training and caring for his subs. There is no benefit to owning a sub and not molding her and training her to be the best sub she is capable of being.

Now some may find it micromanaging of the sub to require her to inform her Owner of location and activities. This part of the rule does not keep my submissive from going out and doing things that she would like. My sub may go and do as she wishes as long as she has asked permission and informed her Owner of what she will be doing. This actually builds trust in and helps to develop the dependence of the sub on her Owner.

Ownership of a submissive is not as easy as one may think. The Owner takes on the responsibility of the life of the submissive. An Owner thinks for, provides for, and molds the submissive to be better. When complete ownership is taken, the submissive's life actually becomes easier. she is to do only as commanded and follow the rules/instructions set by the Owner.

Oh but the benefits of a well trained submissive makes all the hard work and time spent so worth it. The pleasure an Owner gets from simplely issuing a command and watching his submissive immediately, and in all humbleness, obey the command and honor her Owner in everything she does. When the sub comes to understand and know that she is the property of her Owner and everything she does is for him, she actually finds complete freedom in her life.


-OwnerDoms

Eye of the Storm

Fury filled me and I jumped from my seat. In one motion, I had thrown you down to the floor. I required your humbleness with kisses on my feet. you lifted my foot and place it on top of your head as your lay as low to the floor that you could.

When I was pleased, I pulled you up by my leash. You had no chance to collect yourself because I pushed you over my knee. As I bring my hand down hard, swift, and firm. I will watch as you ass started to glow. I didn't care of you tears that night, your pain was my pleasure.

As your body become shocked, you were rocketed straight to subspace, I grab tight the back of your neck and force you to your knees. My control over you was total there was nowhere to run. While my cock thrusted deep into your throat. I desired tears caused from deep gagging. Choke on my cock, your hands were next.

Tied secured and down to your ankles, your hands are sweaty your mind lost. I had taken you, but not completely. I had ravished you yet left your burning. I rolled you on your face as I remove your butt plug that had been warming my place. Now I had you, now I would finish you. With complete control and power, I dominated you deep.

This is what you wanted, your heart's desire. For you knew the pain, the pleasure, the complete storm you would unleash. The moment you sent me that wink full of fire.

-OwnerDoms

Correcting bad attitudes of a submissive

When a submissive exhibits an attitude that is disrespectful and irreverent, the Owner should immediately address the attitude and discipline the submissive for her lack of self control. There maybe times when a scolding will suffice. But since an attitude can quickly open the door to further bad actions on the submissive's part, she should be disciplined. It is the responsibility of the Owner to correct and shape the attitude of his submissive. Once the submissive has been trained and has learned what bad attitudes are, it is the submissive's responsibility to not allow disrespectful and irreverent attitudes towards her Owner.

Discipline spankings for my submissive come in sets of three. When she exhibits a disrespectful or irreverent attitude she will receive three sets of spankings which are not enjoyable at all. This is Owner correcting her attitude. Once the spankings have been given submissive will stand in the corner. And during this time submissive corrects her attitude by going over in her mind exactly where she messed up. When I have decided that my submissive has had plenty of time to reflect and correct her attitude, I will call her to me, talk with her, show her that I still love her, explain how her attitude was unacceptable, and give her the time she needs in my embrace.

One thing that must be done when disciplining for bad attitudes or in fact anytime a submissive has been disciplined is to discipline and forget about it. An Owner should never hold an infraction over a submissive's head after it has been addressed and dealt with, especially if the submissive has received disciplinary spankings.

-OwnerDoms

Kneel at my first post!

Well now you've done it blogland! You sucked me into writing a blog.
I was trying to recall if I've ever done something like this. I'm pretty certain I haven't.

So as I start this, be like me, don't expect a post everyday or even a week. But chances are I will post more often than I intend to right now.

The really main purpose I have for even doing this is to chronicle the taming of my submissive.
She has several names that I call her so beware of them because many times what I call is completely based on the situation or mood. She is called: submissive, missy, little girl, treasure.

For me, well many people call me an asshole then they get to know me better. And after getting to know me, you'll probably still call me asshole but a really funny one! But just for the record, ownerdoms = Owner Dominates!

Enough for now.

-OwnerDoms