Q & A: Do you categorize women based on submissive traits?

For example, in my rules that I have given my sub there is a rule about respect. I call it the Big 3. submissive will respect her Owner, herself, and then other men. But for other women, I have not given her a rule only a guideline to follow.

Categories of women

1. If she is interacting with another submissive who is either owned or not. my pet will show respect to that submissive. she will acknowledge that they are both equals.
2. If she is interacting with another woman that is not a submissive but respects men, she is to show respect to that woman. Although, it will not be quite the same level of respect as before because my sub is better than a non-submissive yet respectful woman.
3. If she encounters a woman who has no respect for men. Then these women are 'bitches' and no respect will be given. My sub is completely better than these bitches and she is allowed to be as rude, disrespectful, and snobby towards them as she likes.

As a side note, I have taught my sub to walk with confidence at all time. When she is around other women, no matter their category, she will walk with pride in her submission. Because she has endued much pain and hard work to become the submissive I have trained her to be.

So what are the reader's thoughts and opinions? Do you have something similar you follow?

-OwnerDoms

A loose leash is an open door to bad habits

At some point in everyone's lives we fall into the trap of complacency. Where we have put in a great deal of labor into an object and so have molded such a wonderful master piece in our eyes. Myself as a Owner/Dom, I have put lots of time, energy, patience, and love into teaching and molding my submissive wife. I had her to a point that I was so proud of her. In everything she did, she knew exactly how to do it. Although it seems as the new school year started and daily life picked back up, I had slacked off not in the area of teaching but in discipline. Over the past few of weeks I allowed my sub to have a little more loose leash than I wanted. I did this with the intent that it would allow my sub to better help the kids. This was my trap.

One of our kids recently had a birthday. Now up to this point, since I started training my sub at the end of last year, I have made every decision and instructed her in exactly as I want things to be done. This is the Way of an Owner and I was, I am, very good at it. So when it came time to plan for the birthday, I gave my sub a loose leash to let her handle it. The party went off without a hitch and was great. But! That loose leash allowed little kitty to develop some bad habits. First, she was stressing and stressing a lot. Then she was not giving her Owner the time he wanted much less the time I needed. The worse thing was little kitty developed a bit of an attitude.

When I finally said enough and started to tighten up the leash, she resisted a little. But soon realized, that when she is on her own she can't handle it. That all the safety, comfort, and security of her Owner's complete control was not there. This caused my pet to relax against the leash, to turn and come running right back to her Owner's feet. I removed the pressure that only an Owner/Dom can put a submissive under to see if she was back correctly. Yet, I did not administer much discipline even though she deserved it.

After giving her a couple days to get her head back into the place it should be, my pet has not quite gotten there. Today she will be discipline and discipline a lot. Owner will now pull his leash in straight down to his feet. He will put more of Owner's pressure than she can handle to break his submissive then remold her even stronger than before. It is time that discipline, in its many ways, brings softness, submissiveness, humbleness, obedience and completion back to my sub.

-OwnerDoms

Ownership of a submissive

Alright I'm back work has been crazy and I have been traveling to places that I wish I could talk about. One of the things I hated was that I couldn't train my sub. Finally, I was able to start training her again and she was primed to learn new lessons.

Here is my rule about ownership that my sub has learned and can recite correctly when instructed to. The reader should keep in mind that this rules are specific to full time, lifestyle, Dom/sub roles.

Ownership:    Little girl  will be forever owned and the property of her Owner. She makes no claims to her life, her body, her mind, or her heart. They belong only to her Owner. Owner will love, comfort, protect, provide security, nourishment, dedication, and all things that Little girl needs or wants. Little girl will at all times keep her Owner informed of her location and activities. As a symbol of her Owner's property and a sign of Little girl's life, she is to always wear the collar of her Owner's. Her Owner is always with her no matter how far away or how close he is, Little girl is always in her Owner's heart and on his mind.

Let me clarify a couple of items here. Dedication, this doesn't mean Owner will never have another submissive. No. An Owner/Dominate may and should have as many submissives as he wishes. But the dedication comes into play where the Owner should dedicate time into training and caring for his subs. There is no benefit to owning a sub and not molding her and training her to be the best sub she is capable of being.

Now some may find it micromanaging of the sub to require her to inform her Owner of location and activities. This part of the rule does not keep my submissive from going out and doing things that she would like. My sub may go and do as she wishes as long as she has asked permission and informed her Owner of what she will be doing. This actually builds trust in and helps to develop the dependence of the sub on her Owner.

Ownership of a submissive is not as easy as one may think. The Owner takes on the responsibility of the life of the submissive. An Owner thinks for, provides for, and molds the submissive to be better. When complete ownership is taken, the submissive's life actually becomes easier. she is to do only as commanded and follow the rules/instructions set by the Owner.

Oh but the benefits of a well trained submissive makes all the hard work and time spent so worth it. The pleasure an Owner gets from simplely issuing a command and watching his submissive immediately, and in all humbleness, obey the command and honor her Owner in everything she does. When the sub comes to understand and know that she is the property of her Owner and everything she does is for him, she actually finds complete freedom in her life.


-OwnerDoms

FYI

I'm still here! Work has been crazy and I have been traveling a lot. So, I haven't had the time to sit down and think about my next post. When I do get to it, I was thinking about writing on ownership. How a submissive is completely owned.

-Owner

Gift for my pet

she sat quietly on her knees moving slightly to adjust from the movement of the cuffs which keep her wrist firmly secure behind her back. Owner had just used her for His own enjoyment. While she watched him leave the room shutting the door behind, the taste of his cum was still in her mouth. The play was intense but the time spent by her Owner was much quicker than normal. This was not such a big deal to her. For her just being used by her Owner for his pleasure was enough. Yet, her desires and passion for more domination left her wanting. In the back of her mind, she wondered if something was wrong. Owner did not tell her she was only a fuck toy tonight. So why would he finish the play time in such a hurry.

A few minutes had passed and her Owner's pet was still tied and sitting quietly on her knees. But in her submission, her Owner's pussy stayed wet. Then calmly with a grin on his face, her Owner entered the room walking confidently up to her. He leaned down to her speaking softly, you have been so good my pet. I have a gift for you. A gift she thought, oh yah me! Then her Owner called out, you may enter my sweet gift. Then through the door a beautiful girl enter, naked, with a collar & leash around her neck. Owner's pet sat in awe. her heart raced and in an instant her Owner's pussy was dripping. Standing before her was a girl she knew. Owner's gift was his pet's pussy crush! Owner spoke again to his pet. For the rest of our play time, I will be ordering your gift to ravish your body.

Then Owner sat down in his chair. He commanded the gift to do as he wished. And in perfect obedience, she tied Owner's pet up to his bed post. He instructed the gift how to spank his pet. Then Owner had the gift kiss and fondle his pet's large breast and play with her nipples. Owner had the gift place clamps with bells on pet's nipples sending waves of erotic pain crashing over her. Owner guided the gift's mouth down to his pet's pussy and instructed her to play with her tongue on pet's clit.

Then Owner left and return with the chest of his pet's toys. He placed the chest on the bed and grab the back of pet's head. As he looked into her eyes and kissed her lips, he whispered I hope you enjoy your Owner's gift.

-OwnerDoms

Eye of the Storm

Fury filled me and I jumped from my seat. In one motion, I had thrown you down to the floor. I required your humbleness with kisses on my feet. you lifted my foot and place it on top of your head as your lay as low to the floor that you could.

When I was pleased, I pulled you up by my leash. You had no chance to collect yourself because I pushed you over my knee. As I bring my hand down hard, swift, and firm. I will watch as you ass started to glow. I didn't care of you tears that night, your pain was my pleasure.

As your body become shocked, you were rocketed straight to subspace, I grab tight the back of your neck and force you to your knees. My control over you was total there was nowhere to run. While my cock thrusted deep into your throat. I desired tears caused from deep gagging. Choke on my cock, your hands were next.

Tied secured and down to your ankles, your hands are sweaty your mind lost. I had taken you, but not completely. I had ravished you yet left your burning. I rolled you on your face as I remove your butt plug that had been warming my place. Now I had you, now I would finish you. With complete control and power, I dominated you deep.

This is what you wanted, your heart's desire. For you knew the pain, the pleasure, the complete storm you would unleash. The moment you sent me that wink full of fire.

-OwnerDoms

Humbleness of my submissive

When we first started our journey into D/s I asked her very straightforward questions. This was my attempt to understand where she was. I knew then what D/s is/was where she did not. I had been a Dom who's hands were tied, metaphorically speaking, in our relationship. I was unable to exercise my desires to control and she had been unwilling to be the person I knew she was, a submissive. But I am a strong man, and I endued much in my time of patently waiting for my day to come. And when that day came, I broke my chains and showed her who I was.

From that day forth, I have trained her, instructed her, and molded her into the submissive I know she can be. One of the very first questions I asked was will you kneel at my feet. she was reluctant to say yes. I accepted her answer but I was not satisfied with it. My submissive will humble herself before me. That is my nature and my Dominance. So I began her training. I never forced anything on her. I always told her that if she wishes the door is there and she may walk away at anytime. she chooses to stay and I reward her and praise her for the accomplishments she makes.

Sadly, for the next few months, I am not home so our conversations have been IM bases. Last, night I asked her to tell me how she will show her Owner the extent of her humbleness. My submissive has almost found complete and total humbleness at her Owner's feet.

i will take them and hold them with his permission..while they are in my hands i will rub my face on them..and then gently give them soft kisses all over from top to bottom
then take his toes and suck on them and kiss them
then i will put them down on the ground and lay down beside them with my face up against them
still kissing them and wiping my tears off of them with my kisses
the tears are not sad tears..but joyful tears of bliss being at my Owners feet
i will caress them with my hands and gently pet them

and when Owner tells me to get up i will but i will lay there coninuting to kiss, and suck, and adore  my Owner at his feet for as long as he lets me..cause he allows me to and that is a gift and i will accept the gift for as long as he will give it
Owner gives himself for me and if id ont take every opportunity to enjoy every second then i am wasting what Owner is preciously giving me and that is not a good sub..
and i am Owners good servant submissive


-OwnerDoms